Seasoned vs. Spring Chicken

When it come to dating, love or lust what is your age preference? Whether you are male or female, is it a seasoned mate your desire? A mate that has a few miles on their tires, or is it a spring chicken that tickles your fancy? A playmate fresh off the lot still with that new car smell. Do you have a preference at all or have you never had the experience of an age gapped interaction? I, for the most part have always drawn the attention of a more seasoned lover{females included}, and for that reason, I believe my preference for dating is a more seasoned mate. When it comes to the lust or the love...well I can go either way it that one😜I can only speak from my own personal experiences.

However when it comes to dating in particular...I find that older men tend to pay closer attention to details when it comes to making a woman feel special, like a lady. They open door, pull out chairs, and walk with you on the inside of the sidewalk. With most older men chivalry is not dead. Don't get me wrong, there are some young men that are fully capable, and it is their pleasure to make a woman feel like a woman would appreciate to be treated. Most younger lovers are still learning and understanding the purpose of those action called out above. Unfortunately, the odds are not in the favor of the younger men to hold that standard.

Now, when it comes to lust that one can go either way for me as I said. The older men that don't uphold my standard of dating are usually restricted to lustful activities and most times damn good at it. It's something about the experience of life for me. Hell maybe it's them living through multiple decades. That man{woman}has seen some thangs and learned a lot over the years. Then again, when that seasoned man{woman, although i've never had any complaints with the mature ladies of my past 😘}doesn't care and condition that body then the experience, and seeing so many decades does not work in their favor. Soooo keep it tight OG's! When it comes to the spring chickens and lust that can be tricky. On one hand the excitement and energy of a younger lover can be quite exhilarating. A young lover's openness is also very appealing, but that can be said about some seasoned lovers as well. Now the down side at times is the need to teach or tone that young lover to perfection of your passion, and let's be honest if they aren't a quick learner that will get old quick.

Love is a monster in any age category and really goes either way regardless of age. With both men and women love develops in what most would say in very platonic situations. At times love exist, but sex can have nothing to do with the love at all. It may not be relative to the love between two people, and the person on the receiving end may not even know the love being surrounded by them. It is for that reason that the feeling of love to myself, and it maybe the same for others doesn't hold a greatly to me when speaking in terms of intimacy. That is where the difference of loving someone and being in love comes in to play. It is very possible to have love for someone but not be in love with them. So when it comes to a more seasoned mate, I think they are more willing to fall in love because they have reached a point of life where they almost desire it. Although, the spring chickens maybe open to the idea of being in love. It is in most situations, the need to engage in every available opportunity of lust that stops most of the younger lovers to commit to being in love. Keeping that in mind, there are exceptions to every rule. What the monster called love boils down to is the willingness to commit to being in love.